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Y’all already know I’m all about living a settlefree lifestyle and this year, I’m not just talking about it, I’m living it on purpose. I’m taking this even more seriously because too many women are stuck in the past, stuck replaying old wounds that don’t even serve them anymore. They’re waiting on apologies, closure, or explanations they may never get, and it’s quietly holding them back from building the life they actually want. That kind of mental attachment breeds bitternes

Heyyyy all my Settlefree sisters and friends. Happy New Year! This New Year felt different in a good way, in the best way. For the first time in a long time, I didn’t feel the need to post on social media. I didn’t feel compelled to announce where I was, what I was doing, or to perform my excitement or happiness for an audience. Instead, I chose presence. Yep, I chose presence. I spent New Year’s Eve at home with my daughter and my grandson. We watched movies, shared laughs,

Check out the full video on my YouTube channel. Thursday, December 18th, 2025. I’m at the gas station getting some gas, when this guy approaches me and says he ’s seen me before, and he thinks he knows me. I’m like, well I’ve lived here my entire life, so maybe we crossed paths or I have a look alike. He continues on and claims he never forgets a face, especially when the woman is beautiful. I’m thinking to myself, ummm is this some kind of pickup line? After a few moments of

Hello, My Settlefree Sisters, Heyyyyy! Let me tell you all about my weekend! I had a blast! You already know I live a Settlefree life and...

Hello there, Yes, you. You might be visiting this page wondering, “Why doesn’t she follow me anymore?” Or “Why did she block me?” Or “Why...

Tyanna Paige Original creator of the Dangerous Line Dance There’s a new viral dance on TikTok that’s sparked both buzz and debate. A...

Hey Yal, it’s me, Tinzley, your Settlefree Life and Dating Coach. Y’all know that I always advocate for women, making sure they know to...

Even though many of us know that it does not take a Grammy award to validate how super talented rapper, writer, actress, singer, record...

It's football season! Yay! The fans are excited, the team competition posts are trending on social media, and the energy is present....

Sometimes what you’ve been looking for, is right in front of you, you just need a little help finding it. By Tinzley Bradford February...

So I shared a video on my TikTok page, and it was a question posed by a lady Tik toker who publicly asked on her page. “ Why aren’t more...

Have you ever heard someone say, "Oh I'm a perfectionist?" I'm super hard on myself and hard on pretty much everyone else too. He He He"...

"I wish that I could have this moment for life" That's the hook to one of the Trinidadian rapper, writer, actress and singer (Onika...

Hey yal, I thought I'd write some updated content because I felt like it! In todays post I'm going to shed some more light on the factors...

So YouTube decided to terminate my channel because I posted videos of me on Fatal Attraction and For My Man! They claimed it was "Copyright infringement." Oh and many of the videos had been on the channel for at least two years! First they they removed me from the YouTube Partners Program that they invited me to join! Sure, YouTube, whatever you say! So I did a counter claim advising them that I'm a journalist / dating coach who was asked to provide commentary on various epis

I‘m a hopeful romantic, I still believe in love and Hallmark cards, going on dates and watching romantic love stories, but I’m no where...

Sometimes Only Death Can Save You! Read That Again! By Tinzley Bradford February 10, 2021 On Saturday, February 13 at 8 pm est, the world...

For those of you who follow me you know I’m a Relationship and Dating Coach whose all about Settlefree dating, making wiser choices when...

Wow! Just Wow! I’m really 50 now! Whew Lord! 😀 Today is my 50th birthday! Woo Hoo! Go Girl! With our new normal of Covid-19, I knew a...

For those of you who follow me you know I’m a Relationship and Dating Coach whose all about Settlefree dating, making wiser choices when...